A synastry reading works through the cross-contacts in order of weight. Sun-sign columns stop at layer zero. The information lives in these four.
ISun and Moon
The classic first pass: how his core identity sits with her emotional nature, and vice versa. Sun-Moon contacts between two charts are the old marriage aspect of traditional astrology, the feeling of being at home with someone that neither person can quite explain.
IIVenus and Mars
Attraction itself. Venus is what each of you values and finds beautiful; Mars is how each of you desires and pursues. Their cross-contacts describe the chemistry, and their squares describe the friction that is often part of it.
IIIMercury
The daily life aspect. Mercury-to-Mercury contacts describe whether conversation flows or grinds: how each of you thinks, argues, texts, and explains. Long relationships are conducted mostly in words. This layer predicts what those words feel like.
IVSaturn and the outer planets
The glue and the grit. Saturn contacts bind couples for the long term and bring the lessons; Uranus contacts electrify and destabilize; Pluto contacts run deep and play for keeps. No serious compatibility reading skips them, and no sun-sign column ever includes them.
Two things separate a useful compatibility reading from a parlor game. First, wholeness: every chart contains dozens of placements, and the story lives in the pattern, not in any single contact. One difficult square inside a field of support reads completely differently than the same square standing alone. Second, honesty: a real reading names the friction. Charts do not lie about where two people will grind, and couples who know their grinding points in advance argue about the pattern instead of inside it.
Astrology is one lens on a pairing. It describes the emotional and psychological weather between two people. How your energies mechanically interlock, who fuels whom, whose openness amplifies whose definition, is a different question answered by a different system: Human Design compatibility. The two readings complement each other, and Eva holds both.